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<\/figure>\n\n\n\nI purchase most of my board games online. There are a few\nreasons for this. The selection online is wider than what I can find at the\nsmall board game shops in our town. I would prefer to support small local\nbusiness, and we do buy games from them. But\u2026 I don\u2019t generally go into them\nwithout Number One by my side. I find that when I go into our local shops by\nmyself, I become some sort of novelty. Every single person in the store stops\nwhat they are doing and looks at me like I\u2019ve wandered in by accident.\nGenerally, I have my Peep and Stormageddon with me, so that certainly doesn\u2019t\nhelp matters much. Here\u2019s the thing, when I\u2019m looking to purchase a game, I\u2019ve\ngenerally done my research. So, I know what game I\u2019m looking for, and I know if\nthere are any expansions or anything special that I need to buy with it. Should\nI ask a question while I\u2019m in the store (usually something related to the\nlocation of the game so that I can purchase it), I often find that the words\n\u201clittle lady\u201d or \u201csweetheart\u201d are attached to the response. By shopping online,\nI can also generally find the games cheaper than what our local businesses\ncharge for them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The other thing that I\u2019ve noticed when playing a board game is that sometimes I get talked over. Meaning that even if I\u2019m answering a question or clarifying a rule for someone, another player is going to talk over me to make sure they are heard even if their information is incorrect. Luckily, this doesn\u2019t happen often, and when it does, the other people playing the game are often quick to state that Kate knows the rules for this game or Kate does in fact know what she is talking about. I don\u2019t think that I\u2019ve ever had any of the regular attendees of our game night ever question me or try to talk over me. It\u2019s only ever been someone who comes to check it out once and then never comes back again. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I think one of the solutions to the problems that women have\nin the board game community is speaking up. If you know the rules and you are\nteaching a game, let them know that you know the rules and you know what you\nare doing. Don\u2019t let the guys talk over you because you are a woman. We also\nneed to be more present in the community. Go to conventions. Go to tournaments and\nlocal board game events. And when you are there, ladies, win some games and\nkick some butt! I know you can do it. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"